Dear The
Other Woman,
Congratulations,
you won! I know I didn’t put up much of
a fight against you but I know for a fact that in my relationship with that "man" I gave my
all. It didn’t take much for you to sweep what I thought was real right from under
my feet. Bravo! Bravo! I'm actually kind of shocked that it was that easy. You go girl! I want to
inform you that I am honored that you were able to snatch what I thought I
wanted and showed me that I deserve so much more. Hopefully, one day you will
realize that you do also before it’s too late.
You see, if
it wasn’t for you, I would be still stuck in a relationship that I wasn’t truly
happy in. I was only settling for what I thought was a good relationship but
the truth of matter is, I wasn’t fulfilled. Are you? During my relationship
with your now “man” I was constantly praying for God to purge the things and
people out of my life that he didn’t see fit. Then you came along. How does the
saying go? “God works in mysterious ways, honey.” At first I blamed you but then I had
a reality check and realized that this is what I was asking God for. He knew I
wanted marriage, kids, the house with the white picket fence and in order for him to
send those things into my life, he had to move the random (your now boo) that I
was holding on to out of my life.
Truthfully, I
hope you are truly happy and not living in fear. Living with the fear that some
other woman will come along and do what you did to me. I mean if it was that
easy for you… But hey, you don’t have anything to worry about that, right?
Now, don’t
get me wrong, you have gained you a wonderful man. He says he loves, he takes
care of you, he blasts you on all of his social media platforms, wine and dines
you; you know all of the "good stuff." Let me ask you a few questions though.
When he isn’t in his narcissist ways (which is rarely) does he truly supports
you, deeply shows you that he cares for you, does he lead you spiritually? I’m
going to say this, be careful with the image that he is trying to uphold
because that image is not benefiting you in anyway. He will have you floating
on Cloud 9 but please be careful because that cloud could explode with more
precipitation (drama, cheating, lies, and disappointment) than you can handle.
Not to mention, what goes around comes around, full circle. So cliché, right?
How about, “the way you got that man, is the same way that you could lose that man.”
I must say
that I constantly pray for the both of you. I pray that the both of you are
truly happy within the home and not through your highlight reel. I would never want to wish ill will or what the
both of you did to me upon anyone else. I have moved to the side and allowed God to handle the situation the way he sees fit. You are of no worry to me
anymore. I have placed it all in his hands. I now understand that God was only
protecting me and making way for his best for me. What you have now was not
his best, for me that is. So, I forgive you. I forgive you for knowing about me and still
choosing to wreck my home. Honestly, I truly feel sorry for you but I pray that everything
works out in your favor. But, if you ever need guidance through heartbreak, I
am your girl because I know exactly what you are going to go through because I
have been in those shoes before.
I wish you the best darling and I truly hope that you got what you wanted .
Sincerely,
The Ex-Girlfriend
Did you really win?
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